I notice when I will not value what is valueless the doors of perception open up to a deeper less resistant relationship with the universe. I refuse to condemn anything or anyone. But then I do not live in fear and the recognition of this wisdom seems to reward me with a happier countenance.
The reward is not in things but in the undoing of the blocks to freedom born of unnecessary prejudice, disdain and approval. The unhappy drum of duality is blind to transcendence. And what is not separated is not related to pain.